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Hello Wise Mamas! I am Kristen Tea; I’m a 30-year-old happily married, attachment parenting, unschooling, home-birthing, work-at-home mother of two boys. I was a single mother to my first son for four years, until I married my best friend in November 2013. I am passionate about many things: social justice, human rights, equality, peaceful parenting, healthy living, music, art, literature. I try to help people however I am able, and I believe that making conscious, fully informed parenting choices has the power to change the world. Thank you for being part of my MotherWise community!
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Lawmaker Suggests Sexually Assaulting Breastfeeding Moms

Posted on August 4, 2020August 4, 2020 by MotherWise
In a wildly misguided expression of misogyny and toxic masculinity, a lawmaker in the New Hampshire State House expressed his desire to sexually assault mothers who breastfeed in public. A 2016 bill proposed in New Hampshire would make it a...Read More
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Why All Moms Need To Know About The “Incel” Community

Posted on May 1, 2018May 1, 2018 by MotherWise
By now, you've probably heard the term "incel," and you might be wondering what it means. What is an incel? And what does it have to do with terrorism? The truth is horrifying, and everyone -- especially parents -- need...Read More
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3 Things This Homeschooling Mom Wants You To Know After A School Shooting

Posted on February 22, 2018February 23, 2018 by MotherWise
Another horrific school shooting happened in the United States. This is what I want you to know as a homeschooling mom. I spent Valentine's Day with my husband and kids, oblivious to the outside world. We put the usual homeschool...Read More
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Cry With Me! Watch These Viral Pregnancy Announcement Videos

Posted on January 28, 2018 by MotherWise
Is it just me, or do pregnancy announcement videos turn you into a giddy mess? The surprise, the excitement, the joy -- I'm a puddle on the floor. If you're like me and you love pregnancy announcements, these viral videos...Read More
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25+ DIY Natural Holiday Gift Ideas

Posted on December 6, 2017August 2, 2020 by MotherWise
Overwhelmed by the chaos of the holidays? DIY natural holiday gifts are the perfect solution. The holiday season has arrived! Many families are choosing to forgo excessive spending and consumption in favor of simple, homemade gifts. We can reduce our effect...Read More
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Here’s Why You Might Want To Ditch The Newborn Eye Drops

Posted on December 4, 2017March 10, 2018 by MotherWise
Most babies in the United States receive newborn eye drops shortly after birth. But why? Turns out, it's an unnecessary intervention. If you're anything like me, your first pregnancy was pretty typical in terms of common interventions. Ultrasounds? Of course!...Read More
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Breastfeeding 101: The Ultimate Guide To Breastfeeding For Beginners

Posted on November 20, 2017March 11, 2018 by MotherWise
Myths about breastfeeding run rampant. This guide has everything all new parents need to know! Most new mothers in the United States attempt to breastfeed, but very few are breastfeeding a short time later. Many new mothers feel unempowered and unsupported...Read More
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Recommendations Finally ‘Allow’ Women to Eat During Labor

Posted on November 10, 2017 by MotherWise
For years, women have fought for their right to eat during labor. The research is finally catching up. I wasn't allowed to eat during labor. Like most mothers in the U.S., my first birth took place in a hospital. The...Read More
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Research Confirms That Homebirth is Safe, Costs Less

Posted on October 11, 2017October 11, 2017 by MotherWise
Considering a homebirth? Good news! Two recent studies found that mothers with low-risk pregnancies should be considered safe candidates for giving birth at home. Not only that, but homebirths save "an average $2,338" compared to hospital births. I had my second...Read More

Record Number of NFL Players Take A Knee After Trump Insults

Posted on September 24, 2017September 25, 2017 by MotherWise
Former San Francisco 49ers quarterback Colin Kaepernick was the first NFL player to take a knee during the National Anthem as a statement on the USA and its proliferation of police brutality and systemic racism. If peaceful protests did nothing,...Read More

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    And my kids are informed on the topics of trauma, And my kids are informed on the topics of trauma, addiction, mental health, poverty, racism, misogyny, classism, bullying, and more, because we discuss the issues. Kids can learn about the harshness of the world without us imposing it on them as some kind of life lesson. 

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Valentine’s Day has always been about family for us; homemade treats and handmade cards, boardgames, family walks, and backyard fires. 

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    This is such important reframing! Chattel slavery This is such important reframing! Chattel slavery is part of *white* history. The people who respond to Black History Month by saying “When is white history month?!?” probably wouldn’t like what they’d learn 😬 Via @anyadoula_htx 
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“I love this reframing of Black History. I no longer wish to relive the horrors and atrocities every single year anymore. It is important to know, but we also have to watch how we “celebrate” our culture and history. Focusing on the harm done to black folks is not celebrating. It keeps white folks centered. It keeps us focused on pain and a sense of inferiority. That is not who we are. That is not who our ancestors were. No!

I choose to celebrate who we are in spite of white supremacist delusion. I choose to celebrate the brilliance and innovation of a people, MY people who have made magnificent contributions to the WORLD in spite of centuries long atrocities against us, that are still waged against us.” Original Post via @nikkiblak 

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    Somehow it’s a controversial take to believe eve Somehow it’s a controversial take to believe everyone deserves to survive without struggle but with basic dignity. Living should be a right, not a privilege. #capitalismkills #democraticsocialism #humanrights 
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    “Unity” comes after justice, equity, accountab “Unity” comes after justice, equity, accountability, and reparations. 

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    “It’s MLK Day, so remember that his legacy has “It’s MLK Day, so remember that his legacy has been whitewashed by white supremacy to erase his true radical message, and that he was murdered for daring to demand equity.” - Via @ellewoodscore 

“I have been gravely disappointed with the white moderate. 

I have almost reached the regrettable conclusion that the Negro's great stumbling block in his stride toward freedom is not the White Citizen's Counciler or the Ku Klux Klanner, but the white moderate, who is more devoted to "order" than to justice; who prefers a negative peace which is the absence of tension to a positive peace which is the presence of justice; who constantly says: "I agree with you in the goal you seek, but I cannot agree with your methods of direct action"; who paternalistically believes he can set the timetable for another man's freedom; who lives by a mythical concept of time and who constantly advises the Negro to wait for a "more convenient season." 

Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will. Lukewarm acceptance is much more bewildering than outright rejection.” 

-Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. ‘Letter from a Birmingham Jail’ (1963)

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    “And one day we must ask the question, "Why are “And one day we must ask the question, "Why are there forty million poor people in America?" And when you begin to ask that question, you are raising questions about the economic system, about a broader distribution of wealth. When you ask that question, you begin to question the capitalistic economy.” #mlk #mlkquotes #mlkday #capitalism #capitalismkills
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